GOLDEN EDGES
What do you do when you are almost
done raising your family? The last of your Mohicans is set to
graduate his last year of high school and enter into the workforce!
I began planning what I'd do with my free time; what my husband and I
could do with the liberation of our sons coming of age. I thought I
was going to be jubilant in recouping lost hobbies and beginning new
ventures, and for a bit, it was rejuvenating my youthful exuberance!
It turns out, that middle age doesn't always provide for the energy,
finances and blessed unions that had forged ahead through tumultuous
times and demanding schedules of work and family. We both found
ourselves in less than agile bodies, depleted energy, and in a state
of confusion about what our relationship had evolved into! Is this a
foretaste of what empty nest is going to be?
Woodburning had always fascinated me
so I thought I'd give it a go—turns out that I am not too shabby at
that! Found myself doing puzzles like my mother used to do to try to
keep herself sharp! She also got those Reader's Digest books to do
the Vocabulary tests and expand her knowledge of words. Now they
have brain games to do for memory improvement also! Who wants to
spend their golden years meandering aimlessly in the world? We all
want to be vibrant and enjoy what is left don't we? So we do things
to strengthen our minds and our beloved bodies! Jenny Craig never
struck me as an option. I mean who wants to pay someone else for
food choices? Can't I just say no? Then there is going to the
gym...even when I was a twig in my twenties, I couldn't do some of
the stuff these fitness gurus recommend! Having CNN playback all of
our profitable years, and seeing we were just as wrong and screwed up
as all the generations before us—just made it all feel somehow
ridiculous! I mean history really does repeat itself, just in
different forms and faces!
One begins to question what their
contributions to the world have been. The information age has
decimated just about every single thing we concretely believed in,
and if you still do; nobody else does! This globalization process we
have shifted into hasn't stopped wars, created the Utopian society we
all wish for—it just made confusion a larger concept! How many
religions are there? It doesn't really matter because humans have
thrown out everything that was normal, sensible, and
productive...including traditions, common beliefs, and virtues.
Mankind is emptier, more unhappy, stagnant and unsatisfied than ever
before! I think the thing that is worse for this generation—is
they now have no purpose or meaning for anything! Why go to work?
Why bother with an interviewing process when most of society either
has been convicted of a felony or cannot pass a drug test? What
defines normal or morality? How are employers supposed to decide who
would actually make a quality product in a reasonable amount of time
with the least amount of cost and time—when the youth cannot stay
focused on a task for more than a two-second break from their
compu-phones? If there are too many felons saturating society that we
now have to overlook some; where is our generation going to end up?
Let us not forget the families...oh remember them...mom, dad, and
child/children—working parents and kids who went to school to get
an education? That is now an outdated composition! Nobody works,
school is supposed to either teach how to adapt to multi-definitional
families and sports is the ultimate learning experience! What is mom
or dad, and what is boy or girl...goodness we cannot claim those
titles anymore! A parental combo can be two moms or two dads or more....and
they can be male or female or both....depending on how they wish to
portray themselves! Where is God? I think they buried Him again...
It's election year, oh how are we
going to decide who is the Pretty Little Liar, the Biggest Loser, or
the Champion Survivor? Maybe we should have asked a Teen Mom to run,
or a Bachelor, or a Kardashian and received better outcomes! Well my
Golden Years are not going to be the stuff dreams are made of, and
probably not my grandkids either...I will be too confused with the
New Normal to relate to any of them! I may end up in prison for
using the wrong speech or terms for what I used to think was normal!
They called one group Generation X who started the ball rolling on
globalization, and then Generation Y the Millennials who have no
concept about work, money, or boundaries---I guess my generation will
be called Generation Z...nothing makes sense, so we might as well go
to sleep and see if we wake up and this is all a bad dream! Hopefully we can Retrieve what is Golden from life while we are here!